Serious girl problem...mature answers please?

It sounds as if she is being fairly open and honest with you. She has been hurt in the past, probably by more than one man. This could have been her dad, a brother, friend of the family, or a relative. The hurt didn't have to necessarily be of a ual nature. It could have been a violent situation or even the death of one or more men/boys in her life. It could have been the absence of her father. A broken heart is a very hard thing to mend. While you wish that she wasn't this way, and it distresses you, she wishes that it wasn't this way either. She sees that you love her and are good to her and for her. Deep down is the fear that you too will go away or hurt her. If you are committed to her and this relationship, know that as much as she may wish she weren't damaged, she is. Until she is able to identify and acknowledge the true, complete source of her damage, she will never be able to truly face it. If you are along for the ride, hang on tight, this kind of roller coaster will take you on all sorts of loop da loops and upside down hills. You will have to be determined to not let her push you out of this roller coaster. There is no garauntee that this roller coaster will ever come to a complete stop. It may slow down and be a smooth ride, right before it drops off again. However, once you get tired of this ride...and you very well may....you will have to be the one to tell her, the conductor of the coaster, that the ride must stop. While it has been a long, fun, scarey, stomach turning, loving every minute of it ride...you have had your fill and must get off.