I want to at least know if we are headed in the same direction?

This is really new and I want to pace my emotions. I am known to fall fast and hard. The problem is, he is doing everything right! We have the best time together. There is no doubt that he's interested. It would be foolish to think I'm the only one he treats this way. He likes to go out. I don't say anything, I just act like I don't care but on the inside I feel like he must be looking for someone else. I think that because he treats me so well. I respect his freedom. I think he appreciates me for that. He told me he "hopes this is it". I am really intimidated by him because this situation is way different from what I am used to. I know this is will be based on emotions. We don't do much else. His place is beautiful. the car not so much. He doesn't want me to see it. Too late. I've seen it already. He doesn't think I have but why is that? I like him not the car. I don't even care about the car. I think hoopties build character. Why is he ashamed? He loves my place and he actually came in and wanted to redecorate to make it "pop". He likes my mouldings. He's like we could do it together. (the paint is perfect now) maybe he just wants something for us to do together. Im like 'whenever'. He makes a lot of plans for together things. So, I'm intimidated, and I really like him. I just want to know how to keep my composure. What do I do?